Sunday, October 26, 2014

10/27/2014

weekly update 10/27/2014

HAPPY HALLOWEEN


Back home. The trip to New York was nice, but I'm glad to be back. And I seem to be back into my old routine, too.

I went to a lecture at the Coastal Heritage Society last Tuesday. It was the final one in the series. I walked across the street to see my new library, which opened while I was away. It is lovely, and I know I'll be there often, beginning next Monday when the first book club meeting there is held. I did my tours at DH and was back at the desk at BC. I went out to dinner with my friend, Beth. Sunday, of course, found me back at Coach's to watch the NFL games (and a good game it was!). So, you can see - I picked up just where I left off. 

the old library on Wilmington Island

during construction

the new library, right across the highway from my condo  
 
 
a selfie of me at coach's

One event that was a little out of the ordinary for me was that I attended the DH performance of Yellow Fever with Suzy on Friday night. They do a historic “play” to raise additional funds, and for the past few years, it's been about the yellow fever epidemics that were so deadly in the South in Colonial and early American history. The focus will change next fall, so I wanted to see this for one last time. It was, of course, wonderful, and Suzy and I knew many of the participants. 

Mrs Humphries & Suzy

me & Mayor Charlton
 

Monday, October 20, 2014

10/20/2014

weekly update 10/20/2014 (back home in Savannah)

Last Monday, after I got back from my visit to the Flynns in Syracuse, I had a few minutes for a quick nap before meeting most of the Schepler family at a local burger joint. Because I wasn't sure how many would be there, this place was great - we could all find something we like to eat, and sit at booths or tables to visit. I saw Vicki, Tom, Rachel & Amber Bordanaro, Dave & Diane Schepler with granddaughter Miranda, and Brian and Sarah Field. It was great to see all these friends and get caught up with what's going on with them. 

Tuesday morning I met two former co-workers from City Hall at a coffee shop on Park Av. The weather was in the 70s (the weather on this trip was generally wonderfully warm and sunny, but it got cool and, well not really rainy but misty, toward the end. I can't complain at all), so we sat outside and had pumpkin lattes and good conversations.  In the afternoon, I drove out to the LW Emporium to meet Donna for a second visit. LW is a craft co-op east of Rochester that I'd been to many times and wanted to see how it had changed - hardly at all. But Donna and I had lunch and shopped, and we each found a couple of things to waste money on. Since I was already out that way, I stopped in at Marcia and Andy's house for one last visit.  

Tony, me & Mabel




Donna & me

Marcia & me

Ishy and I rose early on Wednesday to drive to Albany / Niverville to visit with Allen for a few days. We took a nice detour to Glen Haven on the way. That's where we've rented a cottage in past years, and we stopped to visit with owner, Nancy. The cottage, pool, pond, everything looked just the same - nice. And it was nice to see Nancy. We continued on, arriving at the Blue Spruce motel about 3 pm. We went to Allen's home to visit, and in the evening, he and I went to Grappa's 72, the restaurant where he works. It was his day off, but he and I enjoyed a great dinner created by his co-workers. It really was nice - Chianti wine, Cesar salad, pasta with marinara sauce and sausage & meatballs, homemade bread, hazelnut gelato and espresso coffee. What's not to like?  Of course, then I had to go right to sleep. 

Ishy driving to Allen's

Allen at his restaurant



 Allen had made reservations at Olana, the historic site that was the home of famed landscape painter Frederic Church, for Thursday. We drove down along the Hudson River, and the leaves were spectacular. For my whole visit, I took lots of photos of trees and leaves because each brilliant red or orange or yellow (or combination) vista seemed more lovely than the one before. Olana, the mansion and the grounds surrounding the estate were pretty amazing. From there, we went just a short ways to the Vanderbilt Mansion. As one of the smallest homes built by this generation of Vanderbilts (Biltmore is the home of a brother), we were told this was not such a big mansion. Coulda fooled me. The house, the surrounding land, the furnishings, everything was on scale that make the suburban McMansions of today look like Hoovervilles. We stopped at a DQ for burgers and pumpkin pie flurries before going back to the motel. Thursday night for the three of us means NFL, so we settled in to watch the Pats /Jets, which really wasn't even a game, but the company made it fun. Allen went out for a pizza at half time and with the beer and wine, we tailgated as best we could in the Blue Spruce. Allen spent the night with us, so I had a little more time to visit with him. That was really nice.

on the Rip Van Winkle Bridge...

...and a nicer view from the bridge

Olana

the Biltmore Mansion




 Allen had to be at work Friday afternoon, and Ishy and I had plans for back in Rochester for the evening, so we bid farewell after our great visit, and took the NYS Thruway across the state back to Ishy's. We went out to Genesee Country Village because we had tickets to a "Spirit Tour" at the recreated village museum. After dark, our group was led around by a guide with a lantern, and we went into several of the restored houses to hear actors tell ghost stories. It wasn't really spooky (one told of Hansel and Gretel - I would have made a fabulous witch at that stop!) but we enjoyed it. Plus, following that, we had hot cider. It would have been perfect if we hadn't gotten lost on the way home. A nice ride through Scottsville was not too bad, however, so it was still a fun evening. 

LWS at the Genesee Country Museum tour

some actors during a story telling


Saturday I had not one but 2 guided tours scheduled for Mt Hope Cemetery. Ishy went with me on the first one. It wasn't much history, but was a fall foliage tour, guided by a horticultural expert. Though probably too technical for my pea brain, it was interesting, and I got a lot of photos of the trees and plants he was talking about (plus lots of pix of fabulous monuments and symbolism).  After that, we wanted to eat someplace nice, but neither could remember any good places nearby - until we thought of the Highland Park Diner. Originally build in 1948 as a diner, it became an OTB parlour for a while when the popularity of diners died, and was then vacant for a few years. It was restored in 1986, and has been a local hot spot since, enjoyed by college students, young families, older city residents, and the LWS.  I wasn't sure if the rain would hold off for the evening tour, but I purchased a ticket anyway. Ishy isn't a fan of going out at night, so I went back by myself for the Torch Light Tour. This was interesting, too, but again, not much well-known Rochester history. Instead, the guide told interesting stories of some people buried in the cemetery who had met tragic or unusual deaths. There were costumed people walking around, but none spoke to us; the tour guides were the ones who told the stories. I liked it.

I saw many wonderful colors, but this was the best - at Mt Hope Cemetery

lunch at the diner

SBA tombstone at Mt Hope

There were a couple of friends of ours with whom Ishy and I had traveled on many of our past trips to Europe.  I had hoped to meet up with some, but unfortunately, two were in China while I was in Rochester. Marcia and Pat returned late Friday and were kind enough to meet us and Teri (another one of our traveling group) for breakfast on Sunday. That was wonderful, and it was so good to see these "girls".  Since traveling is what they like to do, I'm hoping a visit to Savannah is in the future. After that, Ishy and I stopped at an Italian take out place for pasta and pizza, since cooking wasn't an option. The Flynns and Jimmy had been invited for dinner before the plumbing problems arose, so we had to make adjustments. We bought paper plates and utensils, and ordered take out food to minimize prep and clean up since we didn't have use of the kitchen sink. It was all fine though, and we had another great visit with Robin, Wayne, Rachel, Hannah, and Jimmy (Uncle Jimmy even took Rachel to the Record Archive, and Rachel drove!)  Brian, Sharon, Sarah & Emily stopped later after Sarah's piano recital, and that was nice. Not to mention a nail-biter victory for the Bills :-)  After all the company left, we cleaned up what we could and then settled in for my last evening of the trip. We visited and watched the football. 
the Travelers, out to breakfast

Emily, Rachel, Hannah, Sarah
Monday was a long day. I knew it would be, but it was made even worse when I had a 2 hour delay in NYC. Generally, when I fly someplace, I leave my car at the Savannah airport so if there's a delay, it doesn't matter. But this time I would be gone for such a long time, and I haven't had a delay in many travels recently, so I made plans to have my neighbor, Mike, pick me up. I don't know why I continue to fly Delta, when almost all experiences are bad ones. (Actually, I do know why - less $).  That was one of several mess ups on the trip, beginning before I even left Savannah. As soon as I was on the plane to begin my journey, I realized I didn't have my red travel pillow; I guess it never made it out of the SAV airport. I need that, so I bought another in JFK. I left my phone charger at the B&B in Penn Yan, but the owner found it and mailed it back to me in Savannah. I'd bought another in the Verizon store near Ishy, so I was good to go while on vacation. I bought a thumb ring at the Windmill on the third day of my trip, and have already misplaced it 3 times - better not to wear it, I guess. During the second week, Ishy's plumbing backed up at the front of her house where her kitchen sink and laundry are (lucky the bathroom plumbing worked fine: that would have been a disaster indeed if I'd broken that, too!).  And then her heat wouldn't work!  When all the guys were over on Sunday, none could find out what the problem was. I, of course, didn't think it was a problem as I prefer to sleep in a cold room and during the day it's easy to add a sweater.  She had everything back in working order before I even landed in Savannah again on Monday evening, so she's back to her routine.  

I'm back to mine, too.  The visits were all wonderful, but THERE'S NO PLACE LIKE HOME!

Monday, October 13, 2014

10/13/2014

weekly update 10/13/2014 (still in NY)

My adventure in NYS continued on Monday. Ishy and I met Donna J for breakfast. It was wonderful to see her, and we got caught up on what all her family is doing. I met Deb W for supper at The Cheesecake Factory - what's not to like about that? As I was driving back from there, I noticed a Trader Joe's. We don't have one in Savannah, so I stopped, thinking I'd get some wine to have in the evening at Ishy's house. Well, I'd forgotten - you can only buy wine at a liquor store in NY, not a grocery market, so that didn't go so well; and that gets old real fast. Ishy and I had also spend some time driving around during the day, looking for Bills stuff, and going to the cemetery to see the Wahl plot and leave some mums there. I also went to the Verizon store to get a new charger for my phone. 


Tuesday, before I met Marcia (with daughter Mandy and grandson Zack) at the Strong Museum of Play, I drove around Rochester a bit. It's sad to see the hole where Midtown Plaza used to be. Memories flooded back when I went to "the shop" near the Midtown site, my grandfather's offset print shop, which was taken over by my Uncle Jim and then his son, the current Uncle Jimmy.  Jimmy just sold it and retired, and what's to become of the building is in question.  Whatever. At the museum, it was much as I remembered it. We were disappointed that the doll and dollhouse exhibits were closed in order for them to make those collections more "interactive". Margaret Woodbury Strong was a Rochesterian who was very wealthy. She died in 1969 and left all her collections to be made into a museum.  She has thousands of dolls, from all over the world, and some very very old. I loved seeing those so it was too bad that I didn't get to on this trip. I'd spent many hours at this fantastic place when Sarah & Emily were little, and it's still a great place for kids. Ishy and I met counsin Jen C for supper that evening. Jen is really into geneology, so we talked about many old family stories.


McCurdy's, Forman's, and many other shops used to be a favorite place for me visit

Zack at the butterfly house at Strong Museum

Wednesday just happened to be the day that a group of retirees from City Hall were meeting for lunch. They get together once a month. Since I happened to be in Rochester, I joined them. Only seven were there, but I enjoyed visiting with the ones that were there. For the evening, I just sat around and tried to relax a little with Ishy, because it's been go-go-go for quite a while. I did some laundry and went to bed early.

Thursday I met Kathy F and Josie H, friends from City Hall. Kathy still works there, but Josie has been retired about as long as I have. I learned all the gossip about people I used to work with - all interesting. I spent the rest of the day with my good friend Roberta D. We drove out of the City to an apple farm, enjoying being together and seeing the leaves. I saw her grandsons, Louis & Joe, who used to go to the museum with Emily and I a long time ago - they are both taller than I am now! In the evening, I tagged along with Roberta to a lecture by author Colson Whitehead sponsored by Rochester Arts & Lectures and Nazareth College. It was very much like the Book Fest that I enjoy so much in Savannah, so that was a nice treat for me.

Hurd farms in Clarkson, NY
Ishy left early Friday morning with her friend Diane to drive to Massachuessts for a long weekend, so I was on my own for a few days. I drove along Lake Ontario for a bit in the morning, looking for colorful trees. The leaves are just beginning to turn, and most trees still show a lot of green. One of the few things I miss about Rochester is the colors in the fall, so I went looking. I met Mabel T and her daughter Vicki for lunch. They are in a new home, moving about two years ago, but this was my first chance to see it. It's very nice. But nicer still to visit with them.


driving thru Durand Park


along Lake Ontario
Then, I took my life in my hands and drove to Pultneyville, which is along the Lake about 25 miles east of Rochester. It was dusk, I wasn't sure where I was going, I was driving Ishy's car, there were roadsigns that warned to Watch for Deer - I was terrorized. But I found it without any bad incidents, and I was on time for a candleight tour of their historic town cemetery. Well, that's all very nice, but I am a guide at one of the best know cemeteries in the country, so this had little to impress me. I was impressed, however, when the tour ended and I looked at the next group to take the walk and saw friends Bob & Sandy Z! They were both part of the group that Ishy & I used to travel to Europe with, and we became friends years ago. What a grand surprise to run into these friends!

Pultneyville Cemetery after dark
Saturday, I visited Marcia & Andy again. We went to the Fairport Scarecrow Festival and it really was a nice day to walk around the picturesque village that is located along the Erie Canal, and people watch. We went back to their house to try to watch some college football, but SU was never in the game, and UGA had a runaway, even without Gurley. Marcia & I kept falling asleep, so I just went back to Ishy's and slept for 12 hours. I guess I was really tired.


the Canal in Fairport


two of the scariest old crows at the Fest


colorful trees at Marcia & Andy's house


Sunday I headed out for Syracuse to see Wayne, Robin, Rachel and Hannah. I took a leisurely drive and enjoyed the leaves and the small towns that I drove through. Robin had cooked a tasty ham dinner for us (we were also joined by Uncle Jimmy) and Hannah entertained us with games and dances. Poor Hannah even gave up her bed so I could spend the night in her room. I drove back on Monday morning, again taking the scenic route, but this time on the north side of the Erie Canal, and through different small towns.

Rachel, Robin, Hannah & Wayne

Sunday, October 5, 2014

10/5/2014


weekly update 10/5/2014 (from a remote location)

The first part of the week was all about getting ready for my adventure. I cleaned the condo (ok, I did a little more than usual, but clean it's not), stopped my mail, went for the last swim of the year. It was all to get ready to leave.

And on Thursday, it seemed as if I was in airplanes or airports all day long. For a total of under 4 hours of air time, it took a whole day to get from here to there. Ishy was at Rochester International to pick me up, and we went right to her house. I was tired from being so bored all day, so we visited and then went to bed.

We had reservations on Friday night to stay at a B&B that we've enjoyed on several visits before, so we had a leisurely drive to Penn Yan. We drove past some of the places we had spent time as children (the elementary school, the "swimmin' hole", the family homestead. It was a nice drive. We stopped at Marcia and Andy Lloyd's house because they moved a few years ago, and this was my first visit to the new home (it's lovely). We stayed for only a short time because we all had other places to go, other things to see, and I know I'll see them again during my stay. When we got to the B&B, no one was home. We drove to Keuka College , where I had gone to school, since it was only a few miles away. Interesting. The most noticeable change was that there were men on campus; in fact, there was a men's lacrosse game being played. When I went there, it was an all-girls school. We also had a chance to stop for ice cream. I had two scoops - one grape, one Reisling (there's something you don't find at Leopold's!). By this time, the owner was ready for us, and we went to the inn and sat on the porch in the fine evening weather and talked and drank and got tired.



Robertson House B&B


 
ice cream

in front of my old dorm


Saturday morning, after having breakfast, we went to the Windmill for some shopping. Today wasn't as warm and nice as yesterday; it was raining and the temps had fallen, but it wasn't bad. We met Robin there, and it was wonderful to see her (I'll see her again, too, but it was nice to have an extra opportunity to visit). Ishy and I used to go to the Windmill, which is a huge Mennonite flea market/produce market/antique & craft venue, almost every fall, and it has not changed much. Many of the little booths that I used to think were so good are still there. We each bought a couple of things, and we had soup for lunch. After Robin said good by, Ishy & I started back to Rochester, too. We stopped at an antique shop, looking for things that used to be in the kitchen at the house where we grew up, and laughing at the pyrex painted bowls, the galvanized washtubs, the table top meat grinder, stainless steel kool aid tumblers, fishing tackle (my brother still has that and we saw it when we visited KC). Then we went back to her house to eat barbeque and watch the UGA game, followed by Auburn - blow outs both of them, but since we weren't really watching, it was OK.
 
 
the leaves are beginning to turn
 
Ishy had invited Brian, Sarah, and Emily over for dinner on Sunday. This is what she does EVERY Sunday. So, after they were finished at church, they stopped over. Ishy made a delicious turkey dinner - better than Thanksgiving. We ate that while watching the early games, and we also played a cards and a board game. As the early NFL games were winding down, we all retreated to the living room to sit in front of the TV to watch the BILLS BEAT THE LIONS! That just made my day.
 
 
Sarah Brian Emily