Weekly
Update 2/15 and 2/22/2015
This
a two part weekly update.
I
had an unexpected and quick trip to Rochester. I received a call
from Brian that Ishy had been taken to the hospital with a minor
stroke. I was far away, and needed to go to try to help if I could.
I cleared my calendar, and made a flight plan. Monday morning, I
boarded a Jet Blue flight to Rochester, landing in a snowstorm at
rush hour. Thanks to cousin Jim for the ride to Ishy's house. All
week while I was there, it was snowy, and COLD, and was a terrific
reminder of why I don't live there now.
Ishy
is fine. If you have to have a stroke, hers is the best one to have.
By the time I got to Rochester, she had been released from the
hospital and was home. She has a slight loss of motor coordination
in her right arm and hand, but with work, she should have full use
soon. So, I really wasn't needed at all; in fact, I was probably a
hindrance because I just kept telling her what I would do, which is
no help at all. It was good to see her, and I'm glad I went, if for
no other reason than to reassure myself that she is fine.
sitting at Ishy's kitchen table, boring each other |
the snow pile at the end of Ishy's driveway |
But
the travel! OMG. I know I’ve sworn this before, but this time I
think I may stick to my promises and NEVER FLY AGAIN. Between the
incompetent airline staff and the inconsiderate homeland security
people (with signs throughout all airports “your security is
important to us” which should be changed to “your inconvenience
is of no concern to us”). On the plus side, coming home was
probably the only direct flight there will ever be between ROC and
SAV, as we were not allowed to land in Atlanta due to high winds.
Our plane was diverted to Savannah, and after a few brief panicky
moments when I thought they wouldn't let me off the plane, but would
make me return to Atlanta when they were finally able to resume the
trip, I was HOME. But the entire experience was a nightmare.
Back
in Savannah, things returned to normal very quickly. I had a lecture
to go to on Wednesday, a luncheon on Thursday, DH on Friday, BC on
Saturday. My routine.
Wednesday
was also Georgia Day, the celebration of James Oglethorpe landing in
Savannah in 1733. Each year, Second graders at all the schools in
the area dress in colonial costumes and march down Bull Street from
Forsyth Park to City Hall. I love to watch the enthusiasm of the
kids as the walk, march, skip, jump, run and frolic in the parade.
Such energy!
And
while I was at Forsyth Park, I needed to take a photo of the lovely
trees that are just beginning to bloom. It sure beats the piles of
snow on every street corner in Rochester!
huge blooms and Spanish Moss - ah, the South |
On
Thursday evening, I invited Anne and Donna over to watch The Theory
of Everything on pay-per-view. I think Stephen Hawking is amazing,
and I wanted to see this movie. As far as I could tell, the movie
was true to the reality of his life and first marriage. It was a
good movie. I still haven't seen American Sniper, and I'm not sure I
want to.
So,
everything has returned to normal here. It's very good to be away
from the snow and cold, and also good to know that Ishy has support
and will continue to get better all the time. Getting old is not
easy, and we're all finding this out.